“Ayah,
can Allah see us now?” Ask Humaira’ this morning when we were on our way to her
school.
“Yup,
sure he can,” I said to her briefly. More questions will surely come after.
“Can
Allah heard us talking in the car now?” he asked another question, as expected.
“Of
course he can, in fact, he can hear every single thing that every single human
in this world says.” This time, I elaborated the answer a bit more.
“But
how? How did Allah see, how did Allah hear? Did he have eyes and ears like us?”
and finally, she asked the real question which I think, is boggling her mind
all this while.
Humaira’
is now 7 years old, when she was just 4, her question was just about ‘what’. Almost
everything that she saw and touched, she wanted to know, what the name for it
was.
As
she grew, the questions evolve from what, to why and how.
Sometimes,
I and my wife found it hard to answer, especially when she asked about complicated
concept involving science and ISLAM, but we try as best as we can to give the best
answer.
At
this stage, it is important for parents to answer every questions children asked appropriately
as their mind is progressing very fast, like a sponge if I can say. For muslim parents, it is good if we
can try to relate every answer to the concept of tauhid through simple
explanation that can easily be understand.
For
example, when children asked about why the colour of the sky is blue, do not just
explain the concept of colour and light which make the colour of the sky look blue,
but say to them that Allah is the one who created the sky, sun and light that
made the sky looks blue and ALLAH is the ONE that created the beautiful blue sky
and everything in this world.
When
children ask about why dead people have to be buried, explain about the
concept of life and death and what they can do to have a better life in the
hereafter.
Every
question that our children asked is actually an opportunity for parents to build
up their iman. We should not let this chance slipped away.
I
took a deep breath before answering as this is another chance to increase her knowledge about tauhid. Hopefully the answer will be good for
her. Insyaallah.
“No Humaira’, ALLAH didn’t have eyes and ear like
us, but surely he can see and he can hear. How he see and hear, we leave it to
Allah, it is not our job to figure out how can he see and how can he hear,
because we as humans are very weak to do so.”
“In
fact, Allah forbids us to ask about how did he look like, how did he see, hear
and all things related to his being, but what Allah want us to think and talk
about is his creation.”
“For
example, Allah wants us to think about the mountain, how the birds fly, how the
fish breath in the water and even about ourselves.”
“When
we think and explore his great creation, we will see, how great the creator is,
and try to imagine, if his creation in this world is great, how great is the
heaven that he promised to all his servants that does many good deeds in his
life” I explained.
“But
ayah, I’m still small, how will I know and learn about all those things
that you said?” she complained.
“That
is why Humaira’, even thinking about one of his creation is hard, now, can you imagine, how can we think about the one that creates all things.”
I
looked at her face through the rear view mirror. She looked at me as well and I
gave her a smile. As we approach the school gate, I remember one ayah in the
Quran that reflect our discussion just now.
(3:191) those who remember Allah while standing, sitting or
(reclining) on their backs, and reflect in the creation of the heavens and the
earth, (saying): 'Our Lord! You have not created this in vain. Glory to You!
Save us, then, from the chastisement of the Fire.
O
Allah, grant her knowledge and wisdom that will make her a better servant to
you in the future. Ameen.
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